Whimsy

A couple of weeks ago, Jaden, Daulton, Shelby and myself were in the jeep headed to the store. Because it is dead of summer and because I don't have an air conditioner and because I WORSHIP the sun, my top is off my jeep. Everywhere I go I feel the wind in my hair and the sun on my shoulders. Everyone complains about the heat. I don't. I love the sun. The hotter the better. I'm so happy in this weather!

Okay. Back on track. We were driving down the road and a sprinkler was spraying into our lane. There was nowhere to turn, so we went through it. We all screamed and ducked and got hit by the water. Then we laughed out loud.

Of course it triggered thoughts in my head.

Diana is a GREAT mom. When she has the kids they always look as if they stepped out of a magazine. Perfect hair. Perfectly matched clothes. Clean. Okay, let's be honest here, those two kids are the STINKIEST kids. Ever. But their cuteness makes up for the natural odor that befalls them, so it's an even trade.

Bill and Haily get dropped off at Grandmas house and if Diana and Tyson have learned anything about parenting, they have learned not to put the kids in their nice clothes when they visit me. Shoes are optional. A messy kid is inevitable.

We walk in the mud puddles. We dig in the dirt. We plant flowers. We weed the flower beds. We play in the sprinkler. We eat Otter Pops until the juice is oozing out of our t-shirts. I'm happy. They are happy. Win win situation.

Do you remember being a kid? Do you remember running and playing and laughing and shouting and dancing and singing without a care? Going through the sprinkler made me think of that. Watching the joy that Hailey and Bill show when they walk with me THROUGH the mud puddles instead of around them warms my heart clean through to my soul.

I said it before in another blog:

I'm not old (yet) but my time of wishes is more behind me than in front of me.

There will always be gardening and housework and bills to pay and dishes to wash and laundry to do and windows to wash. BUT I refuse to become stuffy and boring and grown up. When I can I will find that moment of whimsy and embrace it. I'll jot it down in my happy book and remember that moment forever.

Here are some things I highly recommend:

• walk through the mud puddle  • sing out loud • take your shoes off and feel the cool grass between your toes • put on that swimsuit and go to the pool. Listen to the pure joy that the kids share naturally • eat Otter Pops • buy some Converse tennis shoes and ROCK them. If you REALLY feel adventurous buy them in a blue or red or purple or multi color. Just wear them • walk through the sprinklers that cross your path • eat with your fingers. Don't even get out the silverware • skip rocks at the lake • turn off the air in your car and roll down the window • lay on your back and count the stars or make shapes out of the clouds or watch fireworks or make out with your soul mate. • talk to your kids about trivial-it-doesn't-really-matter stuff (because it really DOES matter most in the end) • play hopscotch or jacks or jump rope or hula hoop or kickball or Speed or tag or hide and seek • eat bubblegum and blow a REALLY BIG bubble • get in a food fight until your clothes are covered in mashed potatoes • make your kids roll their eyes at you • say "I love you" a lot

Forget not that the earth delights to feel your bare feet and the winds long to play with your hair. ~Kahlil Gibran